One idea can change EVERYTHING in your life WITHOUT any change in your money situation. Start here.
Did you know using one ‘concept’ your life can change 100% WITHOUT any actual change in your life?
You must be thinking what? What am I saying?
That's right, your life, my life..can change fully without any material changes or money changes as such.
That's how I changed my life FULLY over the past 4 years WITHOUT ANY change in my money situation and that's what I want to help You learn to succeed in your life.
The concept is the ‘right mindset’ for YOU
As promised last week, I will share with you the process I followed (now that I look back in retrospect), breaking it down in many steps so that You can take actions needed to change your life.
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I am a finance professional working full time and building my dream in my ‘free’ time or ‘minutes’/ on the weekend.
My dream is to help You change your life, without ANY change in your money situation (if you think that is what is holding you back from living your best life today, because it is not. It is only your MINDSET that is holding you back!)
Why should you change your mindset?
Because life is short and having more money can be good and solve a lot of things maybe , but what if you know the money you are looking for will not be coming to you quickly/right away?
Maybe it will take ‘years’ to reach that ‘good’ life?
That's what I was thinking and waiting for, until my dad lost his job and all the dreams of a ‘good life’ went away with that.
Does that mean I will not live the way I desire, now that we have less money?
Well, it is only ME who decides that and I will share step by step with you how I am living my best life TODAY ( with little or no change in the amount of money we have over the past few years) by getting in the right mindset for me!
The first thing you need to reach the life of your dreams (something you imagine far far away, currently) is to GET REAL with yourself. DECIDE what you want.
Welcome to Getting in the RIGHT mindset for YOU, episode 1
Define what you want
Write down and keep looking at it again, what do you want?
Underline what you want
Sleep,
Wake up and ask yourself again what you want.
What you FEEL is the answer.
Don’t defy it with logic and restrictions,
Just let that thought BE.
Forget all the problems for one minute and just decide what you want.
Get real with yourself,
Wake up. Time is RIGHT NOW.
Time is TODAY.
What you will EVER SEE is TODAY,
So think and decide, what do you want?
Why can't you get it yet?
Say it out loud.
And keep saying it out loud. To yourself
Example from my life:
More than anything I wanted to stop waiting and start living
I wanted to be successful (which I thought was only possible through an audit job).
So I knew what I wanted (No more waiting+living+success)
I took time to gather my thoughts but it became clear this is what I want.
My dad has lost his job.
All the hopes of a better life and more money seem to have gone with that.
The window to take risk with an audit job is gone with that.
But I want to stop waiting,
I want to start living, today..right now
And I want to be successful.
Dads’ job: not sure what will happen
Audit job: not sure if I will get it
But what I want is for SURE.
So maybe there is another way to get what I want?
I was stubborn, did not want to give up on what I wanted.
More than ever now because that window of possibilities seemed to be closing or closed with the current realities of my life, back in 2020.
And that shifted something inside ME.
I was holding on tight to my feeling of HOPE. Hoping it all changes magically but deep down I knew that magic will not happen.
And when something breaks, you close your eyes thinking it will get fixed somehow, but it doesn't and forces you to wake up.
2020 was the time I woke up.
I got clear on what I want and I knew it will not happen easily,
I have to find ways to make it happen.
This was the first step to getting in the right MINDSET for me.
Mental clarity on what I want in life + thinking mode ON… thinking what to do now that things didn't turn out the way I expected them to (and they will not turn out that way anymore because our life situation is fully changed now)
I have to be careful.
I have to think before I do anything..what can I do?
This is your exercise for this week: THINK what you want?
Get clear on what you want.
Get firm and determined on what you want.
You have the power to change your life WITHOUT any change around you.
Get in the right mindset for You, everything starts to change with that!
Step 2 : acceptance + patience
More on that next week,
Stay tuned!